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10 Things You Should Never Say to a Woman

Plenty to learn here for the guys. This message board could keep you busy for so long you never get a chance to say anything to a woman. The start up date is way back in January 2008 and so there have been plenty of contributors eager to offer the dopes and jerks the right advice on wot not to say. Somewhere buried deep in the 70-Plus pages of messages you are bound to find some sound advice. Whether you are single, newly married, in a mid-life crisis or a wee bit over the hill you can mine this board for distilled wisdom.  But how many men really want to know wot not to say. Many of the homo erectus types who still seem to survive in modern society will continue to blunder through their lives until the erectus part is no longer quite so erectus, never developing appropriate skills to communicate effectively with the ladies. And then there are some ladies who don’t care and just need a man however manipulative or crass he may be. So ladies beware! Listen carefully but don’t ask those awkward questions unless you are prepared for an honest to goodness answer. I love the ad where Honest Abe is asked by Mary if the dress makes her look fat.

Look if you can get a relationship moving in the right direction you will feel comfortable with the lady you are with. You will laugh together, become good companions, be intimate on various levels and begin to learn to enjoy being with each other. Then you get a feel for what is appropriate to say and do, and your partner should be one that reciprocates that same way of developing a relationship. If you are just starting out wooing a woman then be careful; be courteous; be civil. As your consideration for your companion develops remember if you want the relationship to last carry on as you did at the beginning.  And if you have to, read all the messages.  Or get the book

How to Talk to Women

by Allen Thompson